It’s not an everyday occurrence that a girl gets gifted a 35-carat diamond ring (well, aside from in our dreams). As such, when news broke that Mariah Carey got engaged to billionaire boyfriend James Packer, we immediately wanted to see the rock. Of course, the emerald-cut shiner—designed by her friend Wilfredo Rosado—is absolutely stunning. If you’re recently engaged, or looking toward Valentine’s Day for a possible proposal, here’s how to channel the diva’s latest addition to her jewelry box.